Monday, May 5, 2008

Things You Must Not Do If You Want To Get Your Ex Back

Panicking is one of the worst mistakes you can make. People who panic tend to behave in silly ways. Acting unwisely at this stage can harm your chances of getting back with your lost love.

Don't contact your ex. They ditched you for a reason, so give them some time to examine their feelings and the situation.

Like calling, don't send your ex a torrent of text messages. Hide your cell phone if necessary. Constantly sending text messages will definitely do more harm to your relationship than good

Don't act all 'poor me, look what you've done to me'. Acting miserable and sad will not make them want you back. You will just come across as needy and bitter, which is not a good look.

One of the very worst things you can do is have a confrontation with your lost love that ends in an argument. Logically, you know this isn't appropriate behaviour. Do you think you are going to argue them back to you?

Insisting to your lost love that they have made a uge error is going to aggravate them. Why would you think your opinion even matters to them right now? Acting in this way is going to make them angry and drive you away even more.

Stay away from their friends and relatives. Just this one mistake can destroy any chance of rekindling your relationship.. Expecting others to intervene on your behalf is immature and pointless.

Do not make 'surprise' appearances at places your lost love usually frequents. As much as you try and make it appear coincidence, practically everyone will see right through your act. Do you really want people to see you as a weak obsessed stalker?

So now you know exactly what NOT to do when your ex dumps you. Do you know there are lots of things that you CAN do to get your lost love back? Find out how to get your ex back now!

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