The feelings and emotions experienced during a break up can become so intense that you may feel that they could last forever and that there will be no end to the hell that is the broken heart. Firstly, it is important to remember that no one is to blame for the break up.
Many feelings occur due to the embarrassment we feel from being broken up with. First of all, know that the break up is not your fault.
The break up is no ones fault and there is nothing you could have done to prevent it. Trying to point the finger of blame will only result in creating feelings of resentment in yourself or your former partner.
The symptoms an individual experiences after a break up will vary from person to person, however rest assured, you are normal. Allow yourself to feel these emotions, however be sure you only let your anger out in an appropriate environment.
By allowing yourself to feel these emotions, you will be more able to accept them and the situation, and this will ultimately allow you to free yourself from them and move on. Accepting that we are hurting and allowing ourselves to feel it will aid in us accepting the situation and moving on faster.
A break up does not mean you will be alone forever.
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Sunday, August 31, 2008
Friday, August 1, 2008
Act Fast To Get Your Ex Back
Do you know what indifference is?
To sum it up, the lack of emotion, concern, interest, or
importance regarding something.
Why does this matter to you?
Well, once your ex feels indifferent to YOU...
You are done...finished...finito...adios sucker...you won't
be back, baby.
Don't let them become indifferent or you're screwed...
For me to really explain to you how bad this is, take this
example:
* You're walking to get lunch at work or school and you
spot a random person you've never met before
* You just walk by them without glancing or just give them
a quick "hi" and go about your day
* You don't even remember there face the next day, you have
no care about them at all
^^ That is indifference, once your ex feels this way about
you, it's game over.
How do you stop them from becoming indifferent? Well, in
short, you can't AVOID them completely or they will become
numb to you...
BUT, at the same time, you can't SHOWER them with your
attention or it will just turn them off.
The longer that you wait, the worse chance you have of
getting your ex back. Don't shoot yourself in the foot!
Discover the 5 Top Secrets To Get Your Ex Back
by signing up for a FREE NEWSLETTER HERE
To sum it up, the lack of emotion, concern, interest, or
importance regarding something.
Why does this matter to you?
Well, once your ex feels indifferent to YOU...
You are done...finished...finito...adios sucker...you won't
be back, baby.
Don't let them become indifferent or you're screwed...
For me to really explain to you how bad this is, take this
example:
* You're walking to get lunch at work or school and you
spot a random person you've never met before
* You just walk by them without glancing or just give them
a quick "hi" and go about your day
* You don't even remember there face the next day, you have
no care about them at all
^^ That is indifference, once your ex feels this way about
you, it's game over.
How do you stop them from becoming indifferent? Well, in
short, you can't AVOID them completely or they will become
numb to you...
BUT, at the same time, you can't SHOWER them with your
attention or it will just turn them off.
The longer that you wait, the worse chance you have of
getting your ex back. Don't shoot yourself in the foot!
Discover the 5 Top Secrets To Get Your Ex Back
by signing up for a FREE NEWSLETTER HERE
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